CARE OR CONTROL
Care or control ?? I was in a a consultation with a middle age couple.They started fighting right in front of me. The upset husband said- See doc....I 'care' so much for her & this is what I get in return..To which the fuming wife replied- He doesn't care...he just 'controls'...! The care from one person was perceived as control by another ! Made me think...what is care and what is control?? How to identify them?? Soon I received the answer. I had an argument with my teenage daughter over a trivial disciplinery issue...Harsh words were exchanged leaving both of us in tears... After sometime, as our emotions settled down , we said sorry to each other...My daughter hugged me and said-Papa ,you know why you got upset? You were not upset because I did wrong..but u were upset because I didnt follow your instructions....there is a big difference..! I was stunned with her mature thinking pattern. ..I received my answer too... I was trying to contro