Relationships~2

Relationship~2

What do we expect in a relationship? Love, care, respect, Sensitivity? I think most of us expect these and we land up getting hurt, dejected and cheated at some point of time. The only thing I believe to expect in a relationship is ATTENTION. It brings full spectrum of emotions to a relationship. In my opinion it's a master key to life.

With attention you can achieve everything - Sensitivity, Love, Care, Respect, Humor, Upliftment and what not. Just being attentive to the needs of your own and others is all about Life. 

Look at Nature - It has given it's unfailing attention to all the living things and it dutifully continues to do it every moment - we are bestowed by the attention. In the lap of nature we nurture ourselves and as a result we have the capability to soothe all around us. 

A human being is the utmost insensitive and selfish creation of Nature.

REASON

There's a reason for - the events that occur in your life, there is a reason why people come in your life. Is there is a divine intervention in this process? Yes I think so.

The events that occur make you face your strengths and accept your weaknesses. The people who come in your life make you see the facets which you think never existed and you learn the lessons which you thought were never a part of your curriculum.

Nature has laid the stage and planned the schedules much in advance than we can comprehend. Strange it is, but real. Whether you like it or not - the fact remains. Sticking like a bubblegum on your hair. To remove it you have to sacrifice a lock of your hair. The lessons learnt the hard way and in the process accepting the realities and exploring the fantasies. 

Definitely you come out stronger and refined - weak and famished. Stronger because you start valuing what you have and refined because you look at your blessings more minutely. Weak because you are exhausted fighting the battle and famished because emotionally you are drained of your resources.

You need to have a resolve which is stronger than before and a relationship which is bruised, tattered, but mendable. Ironical it is. 

Proved again - Life is Funny and the joker is YOU.

Relationships~1

Relationship

The best relationship is when the two can act like lovers and best friends seamlessly.

It's when they have more playful moments than the serious ones. It's when they can joke around without offending and let each other have piggy backs, have unexpected hugs and random kisses.

It's when they give each other that specific stare and just smile. It's when they prefer to stay indoors and watch a movie, eat anything - cuddle up rather than go outdoors. It's when they willingly stay up all night just to settle arguments and problems. 

It's when they can completely act themselves and can still love each other more than ever for what they are and not for what they are not. 

Moods

Moods

Like a sine wave dancing up and down, bounded by its own boundaries. Swinging in a rythmic pattern. Wants to break free but bound and guided by forces. Forces sometimes natural, sometimes created. 

Looks so pretty when in sync - creates harmony. When disoriented creates mayhem and loses its form. Man a victim or master of moods? Be they his own or of others around, in both cases dependent and helpless.

Originally posted on 20th January 2013