One more look at LIFE

We leave parts of ourselves in places we have been to, hearts, rooms or bus seats, just about anywhere where we have been. People find them later in themselves. This is life. Losing and finding. Again and again. Making this strange massive vastness of the world, our home. Making it familiar. We make it through to wherever we need to, intact, evolved but just with a few soft unseen bits missing.

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same. The hardest battle you are ever going to fight is the battle to be just you.

The only good luck great men ever had was being born with the ability and determination to overcome bad luck. Never be uncaring, but don't allow anyone to project their bad feelings onto you either. Just giving people who are having a bad time some space of their own may be exactly what they need. The sad part is that they do not know when to give that much needed space.

As is the unwritten rule – Everything comes in life at its own time and it is always the right time. It is only we who do not recognize it as the right time.

LOVE - A Mirage

LOVE - A Mirage?

Is LOVE an illusion like a Mirage? On a hot afternoon shining and dazzling, giving an impression of the life saving and thirst quenching gold - WATER. 

Making us live life, attracting us towards itself like an agile deer prancing in the forest and chasing the sweet scent of the musk, which it does not know that it is coming from within.


A serene feeling like an Oasis in midst of a burning desert. The amazing satisfaction of the first sip of water touching your parched lips after going thirsty for days.  

True love makes us see the unseen and explore the unknown. Making us aware of what sensitivity is all about and exposes us to the emotions which we felt never existed in our universe, not experienced till yet and expressions not seen till now.

 It takes intense passion and an overwhelming emotion to feel and experience true love. To the untouched it might be a fools paradise, but to the one smitten by the Love bug it is bliss. Only a love starved heart can value true love.


The flip side - cheated, hurt, bruised and battered. Hit madly like a tornado strike - shaken by the brute force, left in a shock and awe by the aftermath.

 If love is so serene and pure then why is it not valued? Why is it not accepted? Strange but true.

Relationships~2

Relationship~2

What do we expect in a relationship? Love, care, respect, Sensitivity? I think most of us expect these and we land up getting hurt, dejected and cheated at some point of time. The only thing I believe to expect in a relationship is ATTENTION. It brings full spectrum of emotions to a relationship. In my opinion it's a master key to life.

With attention you can achieve everything - Sensitivity, Love, Care, Respect, Humor, Upliftment and what not. Just being attentive to the needs of your own and others is all about Life. 

Look at Nature - It has given it's unfailing attention to all the living things and it dutifully continues to do it every moment - we are bestowed by the attention. In the lap of nature we nurture ourselves and as a result we have the capability to soothe all around us. 

A human being is the utmost insensitive and selfish creation of Nature.

REASON

There's a reason for - the events that occur in your life, there is a reason why people come in your life. Is there is a divine intervention in this process? Yes I think so.

The events that occur make you face your strengths and accept your weaknesses. The people who come in your life make you see the facets which you think never existed and you learn the lessons which you thought were never a part of your curriculum.

Nature has laid the stage and planned the schedules much in advance than we can comprehend. Strange it is, but real. Whether you like it or not - the fact remains. Sticking like a bubblegum on your hair. To remove it you have to sacrifice a lock of your hair. The lessons learnt the hard way and in the process accepting the realities and exploring the fantasies. 

Definitely you come out stronger and refined - weak and famished. Stronger because you start valuing what you have and refined because you look at your blessings more minutely. Weak because you are exhausted fighting the battle and famished because emotionally you are drained of your resources.

You need to have a resolve which is stronger than before and a relationship which is bruised, tattered, but mendable. Ironical it is. 

Proved again - Life is Funny and the joker is YOU.