AM I A PUZZLE?

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  • Don’t solve me. Am I a puzzle that has one solution?. I am forever changing. Even in the matter of one moment, I am no longer the same person. I and my problems in life are ever-changing, evolving, evaporating, and re-appearing— and so are yours. We are two shape-shifters looking into each other and trying to describe how the other looks. What’s the point? I do not need you to tell me who I am. I need you to accept and appreciate me for the mess that I will always be. 

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